Our kids call all of our friends' by their name, but use the term "auntie" or "uncle" ahead of it. Now, they aren't true aunts or uncles by blood, but they are as close to my children as any of their real aunts and uncles are - sometimes closer, as we spend lots of time with our friends!
In return, I am an Auntie Jenni to many, as so many of our friends have children. Not really sure who/why/how we started this, but we are all like family and it just kinda stuck!
One of the things I remember growing up was how cool it was to go with my Aunt Heidi (real, my mom's sister), just her and I, and she would buy my swimsuit every year! It was our special thing. Our girl time that we got to spend together, just the two of us! I loved and cherished every second of that! So Auntie Heidi (who also showed me how to make those fantastic cookies) if you are reading, thank you for taking time out of your busy schedule for just me. I know I have said it before, but it really was special and I thought you were the coolest. Thank you!
Ok, I got a little sidetracked I know, but I swear I am going somewhere with the story and the whole Aunt thing! One of my "nieces" is very special to me. Her name is Amaya and she is the best helper, (she does things just because and will always ask you if you need help) an all around great kid and as sweet as can be! Well, I started thinking about those that made an impact on me while I was growing up and at an impressionable age (I had many strong, beautiful, wonderful, positive influences in my life ~ yes, I was blessed) and I thought that maybe I could be that for Amaya. So, I made a hair appointment for her (after she expressed a little concern that her mom got a hold of the scissors and that she didn't really like the way it turned out) and planned a few surprises to make her feel special! Based on the permanent smile she had the entire time I was with her, I would say it was a great night! One I hope she will remember for a long time and look forward to doing again in the future!
The only thing she thought she was meeting up with me for was her haircut. When she sat down, I had a little package for her, but told her that she couldn't have it until her hair was all done (it was a new dress, we were going to take pictures of her when she was all finished)! She was so excited during her haircut and she really just smiled through the whole thing!
When she finished with her hair, she went and put on her dress and then I took her to get her nails and toes painted! She wanted bright colors to match the bottom of the dress!
One of the things I remember growing up was how cool it was to go with my Aunt Heidi (real, my mom's sister), just her and I, and she would buy my swimsuit every year! It was our special thing. Our girl time that we got to spend together, just the two of us! I loved and cherished every second of that! So Auntie Heidi (who also showed me how to make those fantastic cookies) if you are reading, thank you for taking time out of your busy schedule for just me. I know I have said it before, but it really was special and I thought you were the coolest. Thank you!
Ok, I got a little sidetracked I know, but I swear I am going somewhere with the story and the whole Aunt thing! One of my "nieces" is very special to me. Her name is Amaya and she is the best helper, (she does things just because and will always ask you if you need help) an all around great kid and as sweet as can be! Well, I started thinking about those that made an impact on me while I was growing up and at an impressionable age (I had many strong, beautiful, wonderful, positive influences in my life ~ yes, I was blessed) and I thought that maybe I could be that for Amaya. So, I made a hair appointment for her (after she expressed a little concern that her mom got a hold of the scissors and that she didn't really like the way it turned out) and planned a few surprises to make her feel special! Based on the permanent smile she had the entire time I was with her, I would say it was a great night! One I hope she will remember for a long time and look forward to doing again in the future!
The only thing she thought she was meeting up with me for was her haircut. When she sat down, I had a little package for her, but told her that she couldn't have it until her hair was all done (it was a new dress, we were going to take pictures of her when she was all finished)! She was so excited during her haircut and she really just smiled through the whole thing!When she finished with her hair, she went and put on her dress and then I took her to get her nails and toes painted! She wanted bright colors to match the bottom of the dress!

After her hair and her nails/toes, I took her to my favorite spot to snap a few photos of just her! She was the perfect model and looked beautiful with her new haircut!

I guess I am in a black/white mood - LOVING how these turned out!

I had a great time with you Amaya! I hope that we will have many more days like this to come! I think that you are one of the smartest and most beautiful little ladies that I know and I am proud that I have moved from "auntie" to "like a mom" status to you! Love you lots!
PS- Do/did any of you have special "aunties" in your life now or growing up that made impression on you? I would LOVE to hear about them!




































