Sunday, April 5, 2009

Spending all our time with Grandpa B

We haven't disappeared, just been spending all of our free time with Chad's dad. Many of you know he has had cancer for several years now, what many of you don't know is that is it getting the best of him. I haven't really blogged about it because Brion used to check this blog faithfully, however, it takes all of his energy to get through the pain these days. Chad has recently become Brion's primary caregiver and has spent every single hour with him since Thursday. Kyan is with him and refuses to leave his dad and Grandpa B's side, even if it is to just run to the store to grab something quick. Lola and I have been commuting back and forth after school and spent the weekend with all three of our boys. It is very hard to leave each night, last night I ran home to drop off a few things, then turned right back around and we were able to spend the night. Back again tomorrow to do the same thing.

I captured a few family moments this weekend that I thought were very sweet.

Grandpa B's bedroom turned into the perfect spot for a movie. On the big screen: Bolt. Lola was right in the mix of it all and couldn't take her eyes off the TV. She would laugh whenever she heard Kyan or her daddy do the same.

Kyan has been amazing through these tough times and when I went to Target earlier that day I brought home a few surprises. A movie, some Reeses Peices, Popcorn, and his favorite cookies! Grandpa B's room turned into a makeshift movie theature. He was great about sharing his candy at first, but as you can see, Lola was after his food even when he wasn't looking!

Crashed out last night. My little angels. They were cuddled right up to one another. Lola ended up sleeping in her playpen for only a few hours, she woke up screaming at about 4am and Kyan woke up and tried to calm her down. Did the trick eventually, because she fell back asleep right by him. He was not phased for a second by her screaming, another way that he amazes me every day.

6 comments:

Rae Lynn said...

Hey thanks for the update! We are all so concerned and thinking about Brion, Chad, you and the kiddos every day. Unfortunately in situations such as this no one ever knows what to do. I cannot imagine all of the different emotions and thoughts that you and Chad have had to deal with lately. Please know that we love you very much and are praying for you as well as Brion. May you all be comforted through the strength of the Lord and also by knowing that in the next life we will all have bodies that have been perfected! What an amazing promise from our Heavenly Father. Please let me know if there is anything at all that I can do to help during these tough times! We love you guys!

Anonymous said...

that is one of the best pics ive ever seen with them craashed adorable....its so awesome u guys are spending so much time with him...its so important...kyan is so cute hw brave of him...my heart goes out to chad and ur fam...i knw hw it is...the cancer jst eats away and the end days are the worst....i lv u guys and here for whtever u need....if u need a sitter or anythng!!!

Candis said...

Hi Lady- Glad to see you're keepin' your funny sense of humor (IE: Your "Walmart kid" & "Fred Flintstone feet.") You crack me up!

On a more serious note, you guys are being so strong & are such a tight family unit. If you want us to watch Kyan &/or Lola (take them swimming this Sunday), please let us know- we'd be HAPPY to give you a little alone time.

Also, please send our LOVE to Brion- he is such an awesome guy.

Candis said...

P.S. - I'm a HUGE fan of Lola's cute/crazy hair in these pics!!

Garrett Family said...

First off I have to say these are the cutest pictures of Kyan, Lola and Daddy. Lola's hair is getting crazy or maybe it is just from the large amounts of sunscreen you are using while you are living outside ;).

On to Brion...
I'm so happy we got to spend a little time with him on Sunday. It meant so much to us. I have always loved Brion dearly. You have such an amazing father-in-law,Dad, &Grandpa. He is such a great person inside and out. I'm so sad to see him and your family go through this. It is never easy and there are no words to express how sorry I am. It is nice that you are all able to be there for Brion. He is very lucky to have that. Chad has been amazing through all of this. I hope someday I will have his same strength, you as well Jenni.
We love you guys so very much and you already know I am here for whatever you may need.
You are always in our prayers.

Anonymous said...

my heart and my prayers go out to your husbands father and your family.these time are emotional.lov ya camille's mom